Welcome to the addiction! Yes, it sounds like you had a bad batch of soap and an irresponsible soap maker to boot. That type of person gives us all a bad name and I am so glad that you have decided to give it another chance. She should be happy that you didn't sue her!
Anyway, take a look at the stickies here, the Soap Queen blog, the Teach Soap pages, and the Soap Queen videos on utube. You will gain a wealth of info. Going back through old threads on here can also teach you a lot and answer a lot of questions you don't even know you have right now.
As for the one you asked, yes there are oils that are more bubbly than creamy and more creamy than bubbly. And yes, it is the % that you mix ingredients that changes your soap quality. So many oils, so little time! Lol Another great tool is the soapcalc.net . You can input all the oils you are thinking about, in the percentages you are thinking, then see what the numbers tell you. You can then change some % and see what it does or doesn't do to your soap. Since you need to check all recipes, even ones you get in books, try putting in the recipe as it is written first and then change it up to see what happens. You really can lose a lot of time there playing with the oils and seeing what they change when you change %. It can seem overwhelming in the beginning, so don't stress over it. But keep reading and asking questions and it will all fall into place.
